**Long but worth reading**

Teasing is my love language but fair warning, I'm terrible at conversation until I'm comfortable. Also, this isn't a job interview and you're not a candidate. Let's just keep it light, I promise I open up. 😄

Soft-spoken, smiling most of the time, love making people laugh. Pretty chill most of the time — but owning your mistakes matters to me. If you know you're wrong and still won't budge, that's the one thing I can't make peace with. Not because I want to win, but because I care enough to want us both to grow.

Grew up as the eldest, responsibility came early. These days I'm a DevOps Engineer living in the Netherlands 🇳🇱. After 5 PM — walking, cycling, or a hiking trail if the Netherlands decides to surprise me 😄. Fresh air either way, just me and nature. Big foodie, Indian home-cooked meals are my thing. Someday my own little restaurant. Until then, binge-watching series with twisty... more plots.

No smoking, no drinking. Simple life.
Also — I'm an old school guy who barely fits in this generation. No pubs, no clubs, never chased hookups or casual relationships. Boring? Maybe.
But I genuinely love music and dancing — just not the scene that comes with it. If you want a weekend party partner, I'm probably not your guy. But if you want someone real then I'm right here. 😄

For me a relationship by default comes with respect, honesty, trust, loyalty, effort, clear communication and care that's just the baseline. But I also notice the little things how you talk, the words you choose, how you carry yourself, how you show up for family. Those details tell me everything.

**What you should bring?**
A clean past and a dream you're chasing. Direction matters, not the salary. Two people building together always beats one carrying everything.

Your past relationships and body count matter to me, no judgment, just honesty. That was your choice. This is mine. I'm upfront about what I expect here and I hope you will be too. Because if it comes out later, it won't matter how far we've come.😊

**Mujhe guroor hai apne kirdaar par
Mai jaan waar du, agar koi mujhe mere jaisa mile**