Namaskar, this profile is jointly managed by me (partially) and my Fufa (guardian), and written in my own words so youre hearing it firsthand. All the communications are handled by Fufa ji.
I'm currently based in Helsinki, Finland, doing my PhD in Robotics at Aalto University. It's a full-time role with decent pay. I was born and raised in Varanasi, did my schooling there, and then stepped out of my cocoon to explore the world.
About Me -
Outside of work, I enjoy gardening, cooking different world cuisines, and slow travel (the kind where you pause and soak in a place). I stay active with hiking, exercising and currently trying (awkwardly) to learn volleyball. I love music, following world news, and having meaningful conversation sespecially when people share new ideas or challenge my views in a good way.
I also enjoy hands-on work like fixing gadgets, building small things, and designing stuff from scratch. Right now, Im making an automatic wand
... more toy for my very picky cat!
After my PhD, I plan to return to India and work in academia or R&D. That may take 3-4 years, depending on how life and we decide together. But my long-term aim is to be in India and contribute meaningfully.
Family Background -
I was raised by my Bua (a homemaker) and Fufa (a retired senior bank manager). Most of my values and discipline come from them. I'm also very close to my father, who lives in our ancestral village near Varanasi and is involved in agriculture. We share a close, almost friend-like bond, and I really enjoy the calm of village life when I visit.
My elder brother works in a central government job at BHU. He's married and lives with his wife, children, my father, and our grandmother. My family has always been supportive and encouraging throughout this journey.
I've been exposed to different cultures and lived across very different worlds from small villages to big cities and feel comfortable almost anywhere. Over time, I've also become something of a pillar for my well-settled extended family-uncles, aunts, cousins, everyone.
What I'm Looking For-
Someone kind, grounded, and honest. Someone who enjoys small joys, cares about people, and lives by her values not by societal pressure.
I appreciate when someones actions match their words, even in small wayslike being thoughtful, showing care, or communicating clearly.If you're curious, like learning new things, or have personal goals and dreams, thats wonderful. If you want to make some positive impact in your own way, even better.
It's also nice if you enjoy staying physical active walking, cycling, dancing, anything that keeps you moving. Most of all, I'm hoping to build something real - a simple, warm life together with mutual care and support. Not perfect, not filtered just something steady and meaningful, through all the seasons of life.
I share a close bond with my family, and they've shaped much of who I am. So, it matters to me that my partner is someone who's kind and considerate toward them too. Im not expecting grand gestures, just small, thoughtful actions, empathy, and a spirit of togetherness. I'd love to walk forward in life with someone who includes them, rather than leaving them behind.
A Small Note - I understand that moving abroad especially for a relationship isn't an easy choice. But if you're considering studies, work, or personal growth outside India, Finland is calm, safe, and balanced. Still, what matters most is that you're doing something meaningful to you - whether its a job, a project, or something creative. I truly value independence, having an individual identity, and people who shape their own path.
Also, we dont see relationships as transactions. We are here to connect genuinely, with shared care and values.