Hi, I am Name Visible on Login, Kudla boy - born and raised, now settled in Germany and working in export management. I believe in a balance between tradition and modernity. While there are arranged marriage expectations, some from me and some from family, like someone who speaks Tulu(my love language),suitable height, comes from a good family, and whose jataka aligns to an extent, I know those are just surface-level filters. What truly matters to me is empathy, humility, how we treat our parents, our ability to forgive, and how we face lifes challenges together. Ive always believed that most problems in life can be softened with a smile, and making someone laugh has always been my way of bringing comfort and connection. I grew up on a steady dose of Tulu Nataka and lame jokes, Growing up, I would time my sleep during aata (Yakshagana) just to wake up for the comedy bit and if that kind of humour still makes you smile in todays world of realism. then maybe we already share a common... more language. Also I connect with people very easily and tend to get attached quickly I genuinely like humans and their stories. Thats why I try to be careful, and after all the surface-level filters are clear, I believe we should take time to truly get to know each other. You'll probably make me your friend first but if it clicks, then who knows, maybe its meant to be something more :). I enjoy listening to melodious music, usually something soft playing in the background. Jazz often fills my home when I am doing chores, and while I used to be into EDM and house music, that phase has mellowed out over time like me, maybe. But you never know it might comeback with a bang. I love long drives and bicycle rides on sunny afternoons. I still cant decide whether I love sunsets more than sunrises or the other way around. I enjoy doing the most touristy things during city breaks, taking in the chaos and culture with full enthusiasm. But after all the major cities are ticked off, I do crave peace. I think I don't actively seek it though, because I already find that kind of tranquility when Im back home in Mangalore those 2-3 visits a year. If you have reached here you are a legend. I will annoy you more if we connect. I often say this: being with someone, or marrying someone, should feel like an upgrade, not in status, but in how we live life, share space, and create limitless joy together.